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That Insatiable Hunger: Part One of Hundreds

Pamela talks about the leak in our lives that can cause insatiable hunger.

One Secret To Being A Turned On Woman

I love living life as a turned on woman. So many people ask me my secrets! Here is one of my favorites and it has become a part me. Some call it flirting, I call it “Sipping”.

The Un-Open Yet Flexible Marriage

I just finished reading Sex at Dawn which makes the case that we humans are at our core not monogamous creatures. That in many ways – monogamy is a societal concept – imposed on us by religion and many other factors. I loved the book, but for me personally it’s a big leap from there

Do You Know How To Communicate Your Desire?

When I opened my email this morning, I received a little inspirational message. Do you get any of those magically delivered to your inbox every morning? They can be pretty cool. This morning my message from The Universe had this to say to me…. “A main ‘Criteria of Consciousness’ for the human experience, Pamela, is

Mid Life Sexiness

I am here to shout from the roof tops that great sex does not have to end just because you are getting older! One of the most common questions that I am asked by my fifty something coaching clients is what can they do to keep it sexy after 50. So I have created some

When Self-Loathing Comes a Knocking….

Most of us want to feel hot and sexy. We want earth-shattering orgasms – and to feel like those women look in those damn magazines sipping a Margarita with smoky eyes who are about to have the most incredible sex in the universe. Right? Maybe? Who knows – but I hate them. Seeing those images

Desire is The Real Female Orgasm

Do you want to turn women on? Then you had better know our dirty little secret…it’s what makes so many of us women feel sexy and raises our libidos about ten degrees. It’s the feeling of being desired. Marta Meana said it best when she said that for most women “Desire is the real female

Pussy Praise!

In Sheri Winston’s book “Women’s Anatomy of Arousal” she says that women need a lot of “Pussy Praise”. I loved that – mostly because I know it to be true. Everyday I speak to women in my sexuality and fertility coaching practice who feel completely disconnect from their own genitals. Women have a lot to

Intimacy With a Sacred Intimate: The Question of Attachment

I am often asked about questions of “attachment” when working so intimately with hands on sexual practitioners, sexological body workers, sacred intimates and dakas. I always answer the inquiries with the truth – of course there is attachment and it comes and goes. Recently I went looking for a blog that didn’t make it into